I went to my local gay sauna on Sunday. I’d never seen so many people there.
Barely time for a shower, I was in the steam room, among 6 guys (or more?). In the dim red light, everyone was caressing and kissing whatever they could get their hands or mouths on, sometimes sitting on one of the benches, sometimes standing. At one point, I was sucking off 2 guys who were embracing each other when someone fingered me. Some time later, I was french kissing one guy while another (or maybe two others?) were busy with our cocks.
That was the mood for the afternoon, even if it was in smaller groups afterwards.
I sucked one guy in the dry heat room, when a second presented me with his cock. I took care of him a bit too, before he came out of the overheated room.
My partner of the moment whispered in my ear that he would have liked our playmate to end up in my mouth, and for me to give him his cum with a kiss. And guess who I found later in the showers? Here’s a hint, someone got a nice blow job and someone got a nice kiss.
Before leaving, I tried my luck with one last guy, warmed him up in the sauna and we took a cabin so he could top me.
In the end, he was a liar and a bad fucker. All he wanted and all he was willing to do was get his dick sucked.
He told me he was straight and didn’t want to do anything to another boy. Of course, consent first and no kink shaming. But still, reciprocity is nice too.
But the really lame thing was that it took him forever to get a proper hard-on before cumming in my mouth without warning.
It’s not a problem to have trouble getting hard. I once took care of a fairly elderly guy who had such trouble and hadn’t been able to cum since prostate cancer. I took the time, and he came. He was so grateful, that was cute.
But in general in the sauna, the habit is not to insist and to find another way to please each other.
And I don’t mind a guy ending up in my mouth (since I’m on preventive treatment for HIV). But holy shit, not without explicit consent and not without warning.
So welcome to my freshly created blacklist.
Despite this, I have no regrets. This was a great afternoon. I went home on cloud nine, and didn’t come back down for hours.
That was quite the successful outing. Too bad we don’t have a good sauna in NYC anymore. Something like that shower scene might be a fantasy of mine 😅
If he’s still “straight” I get why he might have trouble staying hard. It’s not a physical thing but it’s a mental thing. That much newness creates a lot of anxiety. I’ve been there. He should have been more up front about it and definitely should have let you know he was going to blow!
I went to my local gay sauna on Sunday. I’d never seen so many people there.
Barely time for a shower, I was in the steam room, among 6 guys (or more?). In the dim red light, everyone was caressing and kissing whatever they could get their hands or mouths on, sometimes sitting on one of the benches, sometimes standing. At one point, I was sucking off 2 guys who were embracing each other when someone fingered me. Some time later, I was french kissing one guy while another (or maybe two others?) were busy with our cocks. That was the mood for the afternoon, even if it was in smaller groups afterwards.
I sucked one guy in the dry heat room, when a second presented me with his cock. I took care of him a bit too, before he came out of the overheated room. My partner of the moment whispered in my ear that he would have liked our playmate to end up in my mouth, and for me to give him his cum with a kiss. And guess who I found later in the showers? Here’s a hint, someone got a nice blow job and someone got a nice kiss.
Before leaving, I tried my luck with one last guy, warmed him up in the sauna and we took a cabin so he could top me.
In the end, he was a liar and a bad fucker. All he wanted and all he was willing to do was get his dick sucked. He told me he was straight and didn’t want to do anything to another boy. Of course, consent first and no kink shaming. But still, reciprocity is nice too. But the really lame thing was that it took him forever to get a proper hard-on before cumming in my mouth without warning.
It’s not a problem to have trouble getting hard. I once took care of a fairly elderly guy who had such trouble and hadn’t been able to cum since prostate cancer. I took the time, and he came. He was so grateful, that was cute. But in general in the sauna, the habit is not to insist and to find another way to please each other.
And I don’t mind a guy ending up in my mouth (since I’m on preventive treatment for HIV). But holy shit, not without explicit consent and not without warning. So welcome to my freshly created blacklist.
Despite this, I have no regrets. This was a great afternoon. I went home on cloud nine, and didn’t come back down for hours.
That was quite the successful outing. Too bad we don’t have a good sauna in NYC anymore. Something like that shower scene might be a fantasy of mine 😅
If he’s still “straight” I get why he might have trouble staying hard. It’s not a physical thing but it’s a mental thing. That much newness creates a lot of anxiety. I’ve been there. He should have been more up front about it and definitely should have let you know he was going to blow!