• Triasha-she/her@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    1 year ago

    I met my wife on OK cupid.

    I have been carfished, frustrated with ghosting, or just no responses, but ultimately, I can’t complain. Thanks OKcupid.

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    1 year ago

    I do, I’ve been using HER and it’s been going okay overall.

    It’s specifically designed for lesbian and non-binary dating which makes a big difference imo. It’s also openly trans-positive and anti-terf which is pretty essential for me as a trans woman.

    As for my personal experience, I’ve had a few good conversations and one short relationship so far.

    Still, people often ghost for no apparent reason just like any other dating app. It’s hard not to feel inadequate after a while :(

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      1 year ago

      It is hard. Sometimes you can remind yourself that it doesn’t reflect on you as a person, it’s them.

      Other times you have to take a break and let your ego recover.