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  • And I’m saying, even if they are polite, they are polite because I comply. If I don’t really want to be in handcuffs right then - doesn’t matter. If I’ve got an important appointment or was about to leave to pick up my child from school before police arrived to “make sure I’m not a threat” - doesn’t matter.

    Your options at that point, even as someone who has done nothing wrong are comply, or expect violence. THAT is inherently traumatic.


  • I don’t disagree with you about this specific case, I was reacting to your “people put too much stock in being cuffed.” Removing another person’s bodily autonomy under direct threat of violence is just another day for police, but for the rest of us it’s a pretty fucking traumatic thing to be on the other end of.

    Perhaps if you don’t understand what police officers go through, I could see it.

    I understand they can pick a different job if it’s too much for them, and that they knew what the job entailed when they picked the career in the first place.


  • I always felt like people put too much stock into being handcuffed or not

    Too much stock? Your bodily autonomy is being removed, under overt threat of further violence if you resist. It’s humiliating if seen in that condition because of assumptions people make. For someone who has done nothing wrong why the fuck wouldn’t they be indignant?

    I’ve been handcuffed before, In a similar but not nearly as severe circumstance.

    Me too, and I knew that they at least had a reason to think I was up to no good (I was not), it’s not the same as literally minding your own business in your own home and having them barge in. Not really apples to apples to this situation here.








  • It is, however, one of the outcomes, and is not represented. I’m not demanding it should be added, but I think it makes the “Good guy with a gun” argument even weaker.

    No fucking way I’m pulling out my gun if I think there’s a >0 possibility Police are on the scene. Now I have to not only worry about taking care of the bad guy, but also about being shot to death by police.




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    I was so pissed when Apple took the 3.5mm jack because I knew the rest would follow, and they did.

    OTOH, now that I’ve gone to the dark side, I listen to music more often and enjoy it more thoroughly because I’m not dealing with tangled cables or having them accidentally yanked out of my ears, and therefore I’m more likely to have my earbuds with me. (they are now always in a pocket in my backpack) I can even fairly comfortably go to sleep with them on, which I do often.

    I understand the audiophile arguments, and I’m sure that even with Buds2 Pro, SSC, and some fairly painstaking attention to EQ/DSP settings I’m leaving something on the table. I don’t care about whatever that something is. I haven’t enjoyed music this much and this often since I was prepubescent.

    I have nothing bad to say about anyone else’s choices, but the rush to shit on bluetooth earbuds gets a little “I don’t even own a TV” sometimes. (for folks old enough to remember that kinda snobby trope around Y2K or so)